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MISTRESS LADY PENELOPE
MISTRESS LADY PENELOPE
ALL SISSY DRESSES AND SISSY MAIDS UNIFORMS SEEN ON THIS WEBSITE CAN BE CUSTOM MADE TO YOUR REQUIREMENTS. WE CAN ALSO CUSTOM MAKE ANY SISSY DRESSES OR SISSY MAIDS UNIFORM NOT SHOWN FROM ANY PICTURE OR SKETCH YOU MAY HAVE. PLEASE CLICK ON OUR BANNER BELOW TO VIEW OUR VAST RANGE OF BESPOKE DRESSES AVAILABLE. WE DO PROVIDE CUSTOMERS WITH A FREE MEASURING SERVICE IF REQUIRED. IF YOU DO HAVE ANY QUESTIONS, YOU MY EITHER TELEPHONE MISTRESS LADY PENELOPE OR SEND AN EMAIL TO HEAD MAID MADAM FIFI WHO WILL BE PLEASED TO ASSIST YOU AND ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS.
As you all can see that we do have a large extensive range of Designer clothes starting from womens sizes 14 to size 32, which includes short classic dresses for day wear to the sexy evening dresses , long evening dresses, Bridal wear to the classic Secretarial look in satin skirts and blouses.
All Designer lingerie with the traditional seamed stockings with the Cuban heels.
Designer shoes start from women's size 4 up to women's size 15.
I am Mistress Lady Penelope but clients of my cross dressing service may call me Miss Penelope.
I possess two 24/7 lifestyle maids, head maid Madam FiFi and understudy maid sissy Barbie. During your session either one or both of them will be on hand to act as your ladies maid(s) and pamper you.
Over many years and many conversations with my clients they have told me horrendous stories to the point that they have been crying whilst telling me how they have then been badly treated by people advertising cross dressing services.
To the point that they would decide not to cross dress again as they felt so angry, having specially taken time off work and paid a fortune for nothing. Lots of cross dressing services say they have absolutely everything to a potential client who rings up, and promising them the earth knowing full well that they do not have the items which they have promised the unsuspecting client on the telephone.
The clothes they do have are sourced from charity shops and they have a distinctive odour so much the client does not want to put them on. Also when they do not have a lot of clothes, they get worn so much that they smell of body odour. All of our clothes are washed after every use. The clients also have to wear re-used stockings and tights whereas we always use new ones.
All this is so prevalent in this industry.
In the context of my cross dressing service, those who like to feel the power of a woman, love to have skivvies to serve them. The contrast with my sissy maids who do so enjoy the powerlessness of their position is a perfect fit.
Unfortunately, in many societies crossdressing, is often still a taboo. A man wearing a dress, or other feminine attire in public is often the subject of ridicule.
Women are very powerful, sexually, they know this, and men know this. It is equally stimulating and intoxicating to experience this type of power for a day. Even if it is only for a moment, and within the man's head, it is a beautiful feeling to feel "sexy" and "feminine." Power as we all know, is an aphrodisiac. This is one reason why men wear dresses, and why this practice has occurred for centuries.
Women are also very powerful.
One reason that men crossdress is to feel this power, and to experience what it is to have the attributes that create this power. This may be similar to the man who puts on the power suit and expensive shoes, sits behind a big desk in the office on the twentieth floor overlooking the city, pretending he is the chief executive officer of a multi-million dollar corporation. He pretends for a day to be the top man, the millionaire corporate mogul who makes the choices. People open doors for him, bring him coffee, and open their wallets for him. This is "power" and it is very stimulating and intoxicating.
Perhaps a reason for crossdressing is one that is not often expressed, but is one that I believe is common. It is to feel and experience the "power of a woman." What power is this? It is the power of a beautiful woman to be able to turn the heads of all the men as she enters the room. It is the power that lingerie models have when they appear on television, and spontaneously create a sensation in the groins of thousands of the men who are watching. It is the power to choose who will get their attention, and perhaps who will mate with them. It is a power that is biologically linked and has allowed the human race to propagate.
Another reason for crossdressing, is that men want to feel free to express the feminine side of their personality. Boys are commonly socialized to believe that they cannot portray feminine traits. They can't cry, appear weak, or be soft. Males who dress in female clothing often feel liberated to express their emotions that perhaps, they are not able to freely express as themselves. For at least a few moments, they can shed the burdens and responsibilities of being a "man." Often, this results in feelings of comfort, and reduced stress. Men wear dresses because it feels good.
One common reason that men choose to crossdress, is for sexual gratification. They may get sexually exited with the feel of the feminine fabrics and clothing on their body. They may enjoy the sexual excitement that they experience from wearing feminine clothing, and in seeing their feminine image.
The reasons vary according to the individual.
Furthermore, they are neither perverted, nor crazy. These individuals could be your next door neighbour, your boss, or even your brother. The man sitting next to you could be wearing panties and a suspender belt under his clothes for all you know. Crossdressing is actually quite common, but it is most often done in private or as a secret that is hidden from others. Although, more and more men are "coming out" and dressing "en femme." In fact, there are conventions where males of different ages and backgrounds, get together to enjoy the freedom of dressing and socialising as females. These conventions may draw hundreds of crossdressers.
First, let me assure you that this phenomenon occurs in all the countries of the world, and is often referred to as transvestism, or crossdressing. Transvestism is defined as "the practice of dressing and behaving like the opposite sex." Men who choose to dress as females, come from all ethnic groups, and from all walks of life.
Thousands of men worldwide are, at this very moment, putting on their tights or stockings, dresses, makeup, and high heels, trying to look as pretty and as feminine as they can. The sight of a grown man wearing a dress, in many societies is considered odd, or unusual, and may even be a cause for ridicule. This phenomenon is often misunderstood, and often yields the question, "Why would men want to wear clothing of the opposite sex?" "Are these men perverted, or crazy?" "Are they gay?"
I am hoping that what I have to say on my understanding and the psychology of cross dressers will help you all out mentally and emotionally.
I have decided to write down the psychology of why a man needs to cross dress.
After many years as a Mistress I now fully understand how a man feels, his sensibilities and emotions and the mental turmoil he has deep inside. I have had many a man in tears of how they feel inside as they do not understand why they have both the need and desire to dress in female lingerie and clothes and still remain a man. I have seen the most macho of men weep in tears because they do not understand WHY they have to dress, to the extent that they feel so guilty inside that they really cannot cope emotionally.
Why would men do this, you might ask? Well, the fact of the matter is that they choose to crossdress for many reasons.
There is no additional charges during your session, your fee covers everything during your stay.
If you wish to incorporate elements from my other services such as forced feminisation, domination, bondage or being pulled over my lap and spanked, that can easily be arranged, but it would be better to tell me when you book your session.
At subsequent sessions, if you wish, you can experience the ultimate cross dressing experience, wearing one of my selection of bridal gowns. Bridal sessions are held at my Victorian country manor house. When you are wearing a bridal gown with a long train and a crinoline or bustle, you really do benefit from the extra space and where you can make your entrance coming down the grand staircase with my maids, your bridesmaids, assisting with your train.
At the end of the session, my maids will assist you to undress and instruct you how to take off your makeup and you can change back into your normal clothes and I will check your makeup has been successfully removed and you are not inadvertently still wearing ear rings.
Depending on the duration of session you have booked, we can then select different items for you to wear, maybe a totally different look, and repeat the process. Unlike some people’s services, there is no limit to the number of changes, only the constraint of time. While changing, your ladies maids will try to help you not smudge your makeup. If the new outfit can work with the same lingerie then it will save time so you will be able to fit more changes into your session.
If the pictures are not perfect, we can give your makeup a freshen up and see if we can improve on the pictures while you are still dressed.
Then we can then sit down together in my living room like two superior ladies and be served refreshments by my maids while we review the images and have a leisurely chat while my understudy maid stands at attention waiting to attend to our slightest whim. If she fails to curtsey to you or disrespects you at any time, then please let me know and she will be punished. Ladies should be pampered at all times don’t you think?
My maids will present you to me in all your finery. If you wish to keep a photographic record then you can bring your own camera so only you have access to the images or if you wish, I can use my camera or video camera. Like a professional photographer doing a fashion shoot, I will tell you how to strike the right poses so you can look your best.
If overwhelmed by the selection available, I can help you choose. I will give you a professional make over then one or both of my maids will assist you to change into the items selected, just like ladies maids helping their lady to dress. You will be pampered at every stage of the process.
If you do not know your sizes then my maids are on hand to measure you but it would save time if you were to let me know your shoe and dress sizes, or your measurements, in advance.
All of my extensive range of clothes are designer labels. We have normal day wear, evening wear, secretarial, lingerie and bridal wear (see below).
Ladies dress size 12 to size 34 and shoes sizes from size 4 up to size 15. We have designer shoes, from flats through to five inch heels in many styles and materials, satin, patent leather, plain leather, suede, diamante and fluffy satin heeled slippers.
A cross dressing session with me starts like visiting a ladies shop with departments for dresses, blouses, skirts, shoes, stockings and tights, panties, thongs, bras, suspender belts, corsets, wigs, breast forms, gloves, handbags, necklaces, bracelets, earrings, brooches, tiaras, fascinators, hats, peignoirs(negligees), masks, basques, petticoats, overcoats, macs etc. etc.
The only safe way is to find a reputable cross dressing service which offers a safe haven to explore your feminine side with discretion always assured.
For the cross dressers who are forced to store their items of clothing in a loft, a garage or in a bag in the boot of their car, all of these are fraught with danger as discovery is always a distinct possibility.
A few stay unattached, but for most, once in a stable relationship it is necessary to surreptitiously broach the subject with your partner to find out if they are amenable, without actually admitting anything, to accept your cross dressing. If the answer is yes, then all is well and you can live a full life fulfilling your dream. If your partner finds the idea abhorrent, then you are forced to do it in a clandestine manner which always makes you feel guilty.
As they got older they realised that the urge was too strong to overcome and had to arrange their activities around the rest of the family's needs, being careful not to leave any evidence of their activities. As a prime example they had to make sure the items were returned in exactly the same position and order as before they were borrowed.
It was more like a dress up game for them.
Most were wearing items much too big for them but at that stage it did not matter one little bit. At that early age they felt ashamed because they really did not understand the feelings and emotions they were feeling hence why they always felt ashamed about themselves in what they were doing. They realise they should not be wearing ladies clothes, but the urge is so immensely strong that they did not know how to stop and they were not aware that they needed help.
Many went on to say that the wonderful sensual feel of the material on their body aroused them and spurred them on to try other items too. For some it was was the way high heels made them totter around and feel taller, for others it was the feel of silk or satin, the rustle of taffeta, or the way old fashioned stockings made their legs glide against each other.
I always make a point of asking my clients how they started cross dressing and at what age. Most of them state that they started at an early age fixating on a particular item of feminine apparel belonging to either their elder sister or their mother.
If I was a cross dresser coming to a cross dressing service, this is what I would expect from a reputable service.
When a potential client phones me up, I always make a point of asking how would they like to be dressed. If I do not have a particular item of clothing which they really love to wear, I always explain to them that I do not have this particular item in my huge stock of clothes but I will try and source the item for them. If I am unable to find the item, then I will inform them when they phone me the day before their agreed appointment with me.
Most cross dressers will never ever complain.
When the cross dresser's urge to cross dress eventually overcomes their anger at their treatment and they come and see me, they say they are so relieved to find someone honest who will not rip them off.
Some ladies who offer cross dressing services know full well that the client will always travel out of their area because they are afraid of meeting someone they know and being in some way caught out. The ladies also know that the client is highly unlikely to complain to the authorities or start legal proceedings because they do not want their activities to be generally known.
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